Monday, November 12, 2007

Responsibility

Responsibility means that I am responsible for my children. Responsibility means that I am responsible for my actions. Responsibility does not mean that I am responsible for the actions of another adult. If I am dating, engaged, or married, it still doesn't mean that I am responsible for the actions, promises, or failure to fulfill promises of my significant other. They are an adult they are responsible for their own failure or success as I am responsible for my own failures or successes. I am tired of people that don't acknowledge or take responsibility for themselves. It is always because of someone else and never because of their own choices. I am tired of people thinking that what my significant other does or fails to do has anything to do with me. I take responsibility for my failures and my successes. I refuse to be responsible for anyone else's just as I refuse to make my problems be the blame of anyone else. I make my bed and I sleep in it. I refuse to make a bed for someone else or sleep in their bed for them. If they are an adult they can sleep in there own bed, they can be responsible for their own mistakes. And anyone who thinks I am responsible for any other adult than myself can go fuck themselves.

3 comments:

someoneswife said...

WOW, having a bad day?

littledreamer76 said...

I was just venting. I was upset about the Jamie/Lyle thing. It was bothering me for awhile because everyone in general comes to me, when they should go to the source. When I was married, my asshole of an ex husband used to do a shitload of stupid stuff that I usually knew nothing about. People would come to me or I would be stuck cleaning up the mess and I decided that I would never do that again.

someoneswife said...

Well, just ignore my husband. That is what I do, and look how much happier I am now. I am not worried about it, so please do not let yourself be. Besides, you see he doesn't mean it, otherwise, he would have said something to Lyle when you two were here. He just likes being an irritating ass. Hugs, Dawn